I hate my family. Seriously. They will do anything to find out what's going on in my personal life. And I do m
Ean, anything. They’ll ask friends, cousins, other family members. Thankfully no one says anything or I’d have to kill them. Anyway, if my family really wants to know what’s going on inn my life, why dont they just cuff themsleves to my wrist, or put a tracking device in my purse or backpack?!?!? God. If my mom finds out something I’m not supposed to be doing, she’ll tell my father (who doesn’t live with me, my mom and grandparents.), and best friend. Oh, and her sister. Why you just put it on the 11′o clock news. Then like if, I want to go somewhere with my friends, my mom just has to know where I’m going, who I’m going with, who’s gonna be there. Well, if she’s SOOO concered, why doesn’t she just tag along?!? Then both my parents want me to do this and that. They want me to be like them. I’m like "NO! I’M NOWHERE NEAR YOU GUYS!!" They’re like "Go to college. Do this. Do that." Well, I say "F! College. F! this. F! That. It’s my life. (even though i’m a junior in high school.)"
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9 Comments
Comment #1281
so you’re 16 maybe 17? I know that feels like you’re all grown up and everything but…
who pays for your home, your food, your living expenses, your ummm…computer? and internet & TV, and clothes, and entertainment?
That would be your parents…they want the best for you – it is their responsibility, their job, and you are acting like a spoiled brat! It is amazing that with the attitude that you’ve shown us, you have ANY privileges at all! My butt would have been whooped from here to yesterday, if I had shown any of what you’ve shown us!
If you want responsibility, you need to show that you are grown up and responsible enough to handle it…not behave like a little girl having a tantrum in the aisle of a supermarket!
Comment #1282
well if ur going out then they should know where you’re going and who you’re going with but tell them to back off and trust you more
Comment #1283
Your parents actually have a legal responsibility for your actions and they are allowed to know where you are, who you are with, etc. I know it feels invasive but that’s how it is. Have you told them in a calm way that if they want to know about your life they should ask you? Have you asked them what they’re so afraid you’re going to do that they feel they have to track you? Those would be good things to discuss.
And isn’t it just outrageous that they care enough about you to want you to go to college? How terrible is that? It sounds like you’ve been angry at them for a long time, and maybe you could look into getting some counseling for that for your own peace of mind. You’ll never change them.
Comment #1284
Personally, I think that you are being just a tad bit dramatic. If you’re in junior high, that makes you what, like 13, 14? You’re WAY TOO YOUNG to do whatever you want. Of course they want to know what you’re doing, where you’re going and who’s going to be there, they’re your parents. All they’re trying to do is protect you.
They don’t want to see anything bad happen to you. You should be grateful that they actually give a damn. There are many, MANY parents that couldn’t care less what was happening to their kids. The fact that they are asking questions just shows that they are concerned.
Comment #1285
I’d like to say everything everyone else said but you are just a complete idiot….grow up,
Comment #1286
No offence but after reading that you sound like you are only seeing it from 1 side, your side. When you have children you will understand.
Your parents want what is best for you i no you have got to make your own mistakes hun but they love you and want you to have every chance in life that they didnt. Im 21 and god only knows how much i wish i’d listened to my mom (didnt have a dad left when me and my sister were young).
I got into college but then changed my mind and didnt want to go, i would of been the first person in our family that would of went and stuck it out, but i was like you and didnt want to go the path they wanted me to. I wish i did now, i would of been able to get a hair dressing job and wouldnt be in so much dept, i lost my daughter when i was 18 and only worked in a shop so got into dept to pay for her funeral and stuff.
I htink you need to sit down and talk to both your mum and dad tell them you think they dont trust you and you cant learn from there mistakes you need to learn from your own otherwise when you get a job and leave home you will be scared to try new things because they wrapped you up in cotton wool. Good luck hun hope things work out
Comment #1287
I am serious here, my parents were exactly the same! It wasn’t until I got older that I understood why they were they way they were though, you’ll understand soon enough.
I got to the point where I beat them to it. Instead of trying to avoid them and not have them getting involved and asking about everything, I used to just tell them everything before they asked. For example: "Mum, i’m going to the shop to buy ….., i’m thinking of going with ….. so I wont be by myself and I want to be back at …… give or take 1/2 an hour so I can watch my favourite show…… when i get back – After only a month they had alot more trust im me and made life much easier. Please understand there are some very nasty people out there that may seem trusting but they only want to take advantage of young people, your family is only looking out for your wellbeing – How would you/they feel if something did happen and they didn’t try to protect you by knowing your where abouts??? When things do go wrong, your family will be the only people there to help pick up the pieces, treat them with respect and you will get it in return – Good luck, they only Love You!!!
Comment #1288
You will understand what they are doing when you become a parent yourself.
You should understand that this stage of your life is the most determining time for your future. Being a teenager at this era is full of ill tempation, not mentioning drugs, crimes, unprotected sex, etc. They just want to make sure you will have a good future and have a good life.
It wasnt that long ago when i was a teenager myself. Be reminded that it is your homone talking, not your mind. Show your parents that you are a responsible teen and slowly you will gain their trust. Dont fight them, you will regret in the latter years.
Comment #1289
trust me,their doing it for your own good.myself and my sister and 2 brothers were allowed too much freedom and we got into allsorts of trouble,serious trouble that have ruined our lives.my mum was a very loving mother but she didnt have a clue how to keep tabs on us she assumed we were doing normal teenage things like what she used to but if i were her i would have locked us up!
im 20 and i have a 2 year old daughter and when she turns 13 thats it im gonna be on her back as much as possible,il do it without her knowing because i dont want her to rebel but il check her every footstep because I LOVE HER! i see kids roaming the street whilst there parents are out drunk somewhere,they can go out with boys and go where they want but they are UNLOVED and when they are older they will have missed out on structure and routine that helps you to become a successful adult.
dont rebel against your mother,reassure her,spend time with her,earn her trust and be a loving daughter.if she sees what a great person you are and how much you care about her she will be reassured that you wont want to dissapoint her.remember all she wants is to see you grow up,go to college and get married to someone who respect you,her worst fear is you meeting some bozo who treats you like crap and gets you pregnant,killing your every chance of happiness, do you want that to happen?? listen to your mum and enjoy your life,it doesnt mean you cant have fun,just respect her need to know that you are safe and happy.